Showing posts with label James Taylor. Show all posts
Showing posts with label James Taylor. Show all posts

Monday, January 20, 2014

Thank Goodness It's Monday #444

WE ARE BOUND
AND WE ARE BOUND
 
Not so long ago I was allowed the honor of delivering the first toast at the wedding of two good friends – Julie and Gerry.

And since each was (and is) fond of both using words effectively and playing games, that gave me the opportunity to stand at the microphone with the wedding band behind me and recall a bit of verbal sparring that would occasionally take place when friends and family gathered.

For example --
 
The challenge: Think of a word that can mean the opposite of itself; a word with two generally accepted meanings that contradict each other.
 
One easy-to-think-of one comes from slang usage.

Cool – definition: Frosty.
“She was cool to the idea.”
Vs.
Cool – definition: Hot!
“Wow! She was a really, really cool chick.”
 
Or how about:
 
Fast – Moving rapidly.
Fast track.” “You got here fast.”
Vs.
Or the opposite “fast” that is, fixed in position:
“Hold fast, help is on the way.”
 
And one more:
Original – something creative or new.
“That’s an original idea.”
Vs.
Original in the sense of plain or unchanged, as in
 “The original flavor.”

Got it?

Good. So did the wedding guests although, by this time they were wondering where this all was heading. 

You too?

Well, it actually relates to today’s Martin Luther King observance and gives us an appropriate-to-the-day TGIM Takeaway or two to consider.
 
We’ll start by defining our terms.

Contronyms: That’s what these self-contradicting words are called.

And, as I got around to making the toast, there’s one, I said, that was particularly appropriate for the couple and their wedding day:

BOUND
Bound together. Two people who have found each other, and know each other and love each other and choose to be interlocked, secure, united. Two families, joined. Bound.

And the opposite meaning.

Be in motion. Move toward something. Bound away for new, shared experiences. Bound off for a new life, together.

The Toast:
“To Julie and Gerry
– today bound and bound
and bounded, as in ‘surrounded,’
with all the love and support of your family and friends.”

Awwww. OK. So as I stepped away from the mike the lead singer in the wedding band inquired –

“Do you know that James Taylor song?”

I do. And in retrospect it’s obvious that it influenced my thinking and toast. And it’s the glue that connects us to this Monday as Martin Luther King Jr. Day and a leads us any TGIM Takeaways.

So I’ll now inquire of you --

Do YOU know that James Taylor song? 

It’s titled Shed A Little Light. The singer/songwriter was obviously inspired by MLK Jr. and, in 1991, on the album New Moon Shine, recorded this original song that both honors and pays forward the principles that guided the hero we celebrate today.

Here’s a particularly-worth-knowing part of the lyrics:

Let us turn our thoughts today
To Martin Luther King
And recognize that there are ties between us
All men and women
Living on the earth
Ties of hope and love
Of sister and brotherhood

That we are bound together
In our desire to see the world become
A place in which our children
Can grow free and strong

We are bound together
By the task that stands before us
And the road that lies ahead
 
We are bound
And we are bound

Listen up: That’s just part of it. You can take under 4 minutes and hear James Taylor sing one version the whole thing HERE.

TGIM Challenge: What do you think about its message?

TGIM Takeaway: On the national holiday in the United States that commemorates the birthday of the late Martin Luther King Jr., it’s tempting to let his eloquence speak for itself.

There’s a world of wisdom in Dr. King’s writings and speeches that we can apply in the pursuit of improving ourselves and others; in our business and personal relationships and our efforts on the behalf of our communities.

But it’s also useful to realize how MLK Jr. inspired others when alive and continues to influence and inspire far beyond the limited frame of the Civil Rights Movement.

And the best parts of the man and his influence also speak to our individual obligation to all in the human family.

I was pleasantly surprised to realize how, at some level, the spirit of what we as a people now honor with a national holiday moved into popular song and worked its way into a wedding toast.

TGIM ACTION IDEA: In the land of self-improvement and personal empowerment I regularly occupy, we’re strong advocates of modeling the behavior of all-time greats. We often talk about carefully selecting your heroes and mentors.

TGIM IDEA IN ACTION: Choose wisely.

Once again, in 2014, we are bound and we are bound.

Sisters and brothers, I hope you are as well.

Geoff Steck
Chief Catalyst
Alexander Publishing & Marketing
8 Depot Square
Englewood, NJ 07631
201-569-5373
tgimguy@gmail.com

P.S.  “Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that. Hate multiplies hate, violence multiplies violence, and toughness multiplies toughness in a descending spiral of destruction.... The chain reaction of evil – hate begetting hate, wars producing more wars – must be broken, or we will be plunged into the dark abyss of annihilation. MLK Jr. said that in his book Strength To Love.

Though the body sleeps the heart will never rest.